We can all agree that men are historically the worst group of people to shop for — especially on Valentine's Day. Unlike a birthday or Christmas, Feb 14 calls for presents of the romantic variety. And unless you're dating a man pulled straight out of a Nicholas Sparks novel, chances are he won't be jumping for joy over a book of poetry or a big bouquet of roses.
Striking the balance between sweet and something that won't collect dust on a closet shelf (we're looking at you, uber-cliché "I love you" picture frames) is tough. That's especially true since the internet guidance on Valentine's Day gifts for men seems to only lie in things that are either crass or cheesy. If your boyfriend, fiancé or hubby is into those things, then congratulations: Your present-hunting journey will be simple and quick. But if you find yourself on the fifth page of Amazon search results with an empty virtual cart, we're here to help.
Difficult men (and we mean that in the most loving way possible) appreciate gifts that they'll actually use. You add romance to the equation by making it a gift they'll actually use with you. So, a pizza oven for your weekly DIY pizza nights. Or a new backpack for your summer camping adventures. Or a cocktail-making kit for your at-home date nights.
Using that formula as your guidepost, we've rounded up 30 gift ideas for men that check all the boxes: practical, thoughtful and romantic.
For the Outdoorsy Guy
A little ambiance, a little warmth: This tabletop fireplace will set the mood for your romantic indoor s'mores night. Pair it with an assortment of gourmet marshmallows and chocolate bars for the ultimate Valentine's Day treat.
For the Guy With the Coolest Bar Cart
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These old-fashioned whiskey glasses will add a touch of class to your cocktail hour. Grab his favorite bottle of bourbon (or a sampler, set if you're feeling extra fancy) and enjoy a little nightcap.
For the Guy Who Loves Spontaneity
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This creative and personalized gift is perfect for couples who love a little spontaneity. Each scratch-off coupon can reveal a different date idea or activity, making it the gift that keeps on giving.
For the Adventurous Couple
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Busy couples who struggle to get a date night on the books will love this subscription box. Each month, a themed date night box will be delivered to your doorstep, taking the stress out of planning and ensuring quality time together.
For Late-Night Dance Parties
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Take your at-home dance parties to the next level with a high-quality Bluetooth speaker. Pair it with a hand-selected playlist of songs that remind you of him for an extra dose of cuteness.
| JBL Waterproof Portable Bluetooth Speaker - $129.95 |
For the Couple Who Sip Coffee Together
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Celebrate V-Day with some upgrades to your favorite shared morning ritual. Pick out a cute mug set (such as the one above) and sign him up for a subscription to his favorite coffee blend. You could also find a sampler set of different roasts for the two of you to try together.
For the Man in Need of a Little Self-Care
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We all know that men could use a little self-care, too. This massage ice roller is perfect for soothing tense muscles and reducing puffiness in the face. Plus, it's a great excuse for you to pamper him with a spa night at home.
For the Gym-Going Couple
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Gym couple? Your fitness enthusiast will love how this vibrating foam roller helps him recover from your workout dates.
For a Romantic Outing
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Cologne could very well fall into the category of "nice-sounding gifts he doesn't really want." But not if you gift him a bottle of a scent you love — or make finding his new scent a fun date. Schedule a free fragrance consultation at your local department store and pick out your favorite together. If you're stuck, this Dolce & Gabbana scent has a cult following.
For the Man Who Loves to Snack
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This gift is perfect for the simple man who loves to snack but doesn't have a sweet tooth. Rather than delicate truffles, this heart-shaped box is filled with a variety of high-quality jerky flavors.
For the Man Who Loves Romantic Hikes
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Take your outdoor adventures to the next level with this insulated cooler backpack. Pack it with all the necessities for a romantic picnic for two and enjoy some quality time in nature.
For the World Traveler
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If you and your significant other have been bitten by the travel bug, surprise him with a personalized passport holder and tickets to a new destination. Bonus points if it's somewhere he has always wanted to go.
For the Social Butterfly
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Giving the gift of a fun experience together will always be a hit. Whether it's tickets to a concert, sporting event or comedy show, he'll appreciate the thought and effort put in to planning a special night out together doing something he enjoys.
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For the Indecisive Guy
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If you've ever fought over the question, "Where do you want to go for dinner?" this personalized decision coin is the perfect solution. Use it to plan the ultimate decision-date night, where you flip a coin for where to go for appetizers, drinks, entrees and dessert — your treat.
For the Stylish Guy
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Does your man love to dress up for special occasions? Get him a set of multiple classy cuff links that he can wear to work or on your next fancy date night.
For the Comfy Dude
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Pamper the guy in your life with these cozy and comfortable Ugg slippers. They're perfect for lounging around the house on a lazy weekend or walking the dog during chilly winter mornings.
For the Skin Care Newbie
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Upgrade his skin care routine with a starter set from a high-quality brand such as Jack Black. This set includes a cleanser, moisturizer, face scrub and a lip balm for men who want to invest a little more time into their self-care game.
For the Movie Buff
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If movie night is a regular occurrence in your household, surprise him with a mini projector that allows you to watch your favorite films on the big screen. Pair it with whatever other indulgences you like to enjoy, such as popcorn and candy.
For the Practical Guy
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It's time for your man to finally toss that old, raggedy wallet aside. This personalized leather one is both sleek and functional, plus you can surprise him with a gift card to his favorite restaurant tucked inside.
For the Couple in Need of Spa Day
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This mutually beneficial gift will leave you both feeling relaxed and rejuvenated. Book a couple's massage at your local spa and make a day out of it with lunch or dinner reservations afterward.
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For the Outdoorsy Couple
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If you two love spending time together under the stars, upgrade your campsite with this heavy-duty camping chair built for two. It's perfect for snuggling up next to the fire or stargazing.
For the Quirky Guy
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Like the Jerky Heart, this gift is great for the man in your life who loves savory snacks — only a little more intricately arranged. Trust us, this bouquet will definitely get a few laughs.
For the Board Game Lover
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Does your boo love a little friendly competition? Stock up on a few new games — such as this popular one called Sequence — for your next game night together.
For the Watch Enthusiast
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Give your man a home for his beloved watch collection with this elegant watchbox. If you really want to impress him, place a new watch inside for him to discover.
For the Coffee Addict
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If your guy is a coffee or tea lover, he'll appreciate this mug warmer, which will keep his drink at the perfect temperature. Pair it with a new mug he can use with his new gadget.
For the Man Who Loves His Sunnies
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A classic gift that never goes out of style, a nice pair of sunglasses is both practical and stylish. These Ray-Ban Justin shades are a timeless choice.
For the Cigar Aficionado
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For the cigar aficionado, a curated cigar box will be a huge hit. This one from Privada Cigar Club includes a monthly cigar membership for the ultimate year-long smoking experience.
For the Dude in Need of Relaxation
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Give the gift of relaxation with a mini massage gun that he can use after workouts or just for some quick stress relief. It may be small, but it packs a powerful punch.
For the Foodie
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For the foodie in your life, a honey sampler is sure to be appreciated. This set includes three unique flavors — including spicy and salted honey — for you both to try.
For Sweet Dreams
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Upgrade his sleep game with a comfortable and supportive Casper pillow. He'll thank you every morning for the perfect night's rest.
