Getting cold feet before a wedding is one thing, but running off with the wedding designer is another altogether.
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One man has written in for some advice on his failed marriage after he broke off a wedding for the very person who intended to make it a special day. While getting ready to tie the knot with his wife, he fell for someone else.
The advice column explains how he knew right away. "I knew from the moment I met him that I shouldn't be marrying my fiancée," he admits. It wasn't a good sign for the upcoming wedding. The groom-to-be started spending more time with the wedding designer.
He knew he loved his fianceé, but as soon as the wedding designer came into his life, it was game over. "I didn't realize that though I loved her, I wasn't being true to myself." He pursued the relationship too. "He and I began spending lots of time together, my wife got suspicious and we broke up before we'd spent too much money on the wedding that was never going to happen."
A Blessing In Disguise
If the groom was already that uncommitted to his bride-to-be, then it was better they broke up earlier than later. He already had a wandering eye and would have cheated eventually. For the unfaithful groom, the relationship came to nothing with the wedding designer.
"I dated the designer for a while, but when the novelty wore off," he laments. "I recognized I didn't really enjoy the gay party scene and still craved a quiet, family home." He looked for Mr. Right for a while, but it came to nothing.
Since then, he has married a widow who had two young babies. He has been faithful to her, and honest about his sexuality. Thankfully, this time he managed to keep it in his pants. I imagine his new wife was the one to arrange and deal with the wedding designer this time around. She couldn't risk him running off a second time.
For the abandoned fianceé, things went well. She is married with children to a faithful man. However, whenever they bump into each other, it's rather awkward. Why is he surprised?
